Suggestions for Dealing with People from the Fundamentalist Mormon Culture
1. Recognize that substantial diversity exists among and within polygamous groups, families and couples.
2. Recognize that additional time and effort may be necessary to establish trust and understanding.
3. Be sensitive of the individual’s “comfort zone,” specifically when gathering background information about other family members.
4. Be aware that each relationship is unique and confidential within the expanded family and the community.
5. Be aware that many, but not all, polygamous families prefer to use alternative methods of health and healing in regard to prevention, i.e., naturopathy, herbs, etc.
6. Be aware that a significant number of Fundamentalist Mormons are opposed to immunizations; nearly all obtain birth certificates; many prefer home births with an attending midwife.
7. Respect each person’s beliefs and customs, whether or not you personally agree with him/her.
8. Keep in mind that just because someone is part of the polygamous culture, it does not necessarily mean they are living plural marriage. Probably most of the families are monogamous, and among those men who do have plural wives, the average is about two or three.
9. Recognize that the vast majority of plural families are otherwise law-abiding citizens, who do not marry underage girls and who take pride in supporting themselves without outside assistance.
10. Be truthful about your limited knowledge of the culture. Listen, learn, try to understand and emphathize before determining proper course of action.
